Are You a Puppet? How to Transcend Your Flaws and Find Peace

Abram Moore
4 min readMay 10, 2022

Self-help solutions require honesty.

On the surface, this statement doesn’t appear bold or outrageous until you consider how many times you lie to yourself daily. People lie to themselves to minimize discomfort or pain, and many of us are far too busy in our daily lives to face traumatic experiences that need better management.

We often compartmentalize, separating and isolating our negative feelings from what we perceive as positive and valuable emotional fuel. We keep our negative experiences and emotions neatly packed in the back of our spiritual closets. Still, we forget that every box we’ve hidden away is tethered and connected to every action we make outside our secret place.

The more we hide negative experiences, the more likely we’ll experience adverse effects when trying to live a life of light and positivity.

Those tethers will turn to puppetry when you do not embrace the negative experiences life has gifted you. You will have a hard time expressing yourself and controlling your emotions in any situation. It could feel like you’re just not in control of anything, and if life brings you lemons, you forget how to make lemonade. Something is preventing you from…

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Abram Moore

Tech and Media Creative — a purpose-driven entrepreneur who shares thoughts and insights on personal and business development and how to balance the two.